Reminiscent of the late 1980’s U.S. sitcom, I have been blessed with “My Two Dads”. My relationships with each are as different as they are. For the many reasons that makes them each unique, I wholeheartedly love them both, and am thankful to have them in my life.
Many things that I love about my dad can be categorized by his zest for life. He likes things bright, bold, and a little zany. Here’s what I mean — his favorite color is orange, and I don’t mean some muted burnt sienna orange, or a light pastel orange, I’m talkin’ neon, calling your attention, bright orange! He drives what we call “The Blue Bomb” — it is one of the easiest cars to find in the parking lot and one of the easiest to follow on the freeway — it truly striking in its hue. From all the places my dad visits — near or far, there are two items he must have to commemorate his travels — a shot glass, and a bumper sticker. He loves all foods spicy, flavorful, and always followed by chocolate.
To make my dad’s Father’s Day card I employed the use of Wordle, one of my favorite free Internet tools for creating graphic word clouds. I basically did a free word association with all things “dad” – and for those words that I wanted to appear larger, I repeated them.
The result was a word cloud graphically represented in my choice of colors, font, layout preferences, etc. I printed the image on dark green card stock, punched out several squares and then used a glue stick to arrange them over a textured wheat-colored card stock. I punched out two gift tags, stamped “No. 1 Dad” and attached the tags with an orange eyelet, and stuck them on with a double-sided 3D foam adhesive. Inside I used an Autumn Leaves “You are Amazing” stamp. The result – a masculine and personalized card acknowledging the truly amazing dad that I have.
When I think of my Papi, I think of his love and fascination with all things scientific, historical, and indigenous. As he is himself a mix of French and Incan, the interest in native people from his native Perú (and all over the world) totally makes sense. The Nazca Lines have always intrigued him — how did they get there? what do they represent? what can we learn from them? — all curious questions. In addition to his insatiable appetite for knowledge and learning, my Papi also likes to stay below the radar. This can be chalked up to humility, or simply attributed to his desire for a simple contented life. When I hear my Papi’s voice in my head, his rant and rave will forever be “hay que preservar el castellano” — he never referred to us speaking Spanish, it was always “el castellano”, which can be literally translated to Castilian (but refers to Spanish) — but this has always been his way to remind us that we didn’t merely speak Spanish, but “castellano” — big difference!
In honor of Papi, I chose a bright pattern, highlighting geometric lines often associated with Native cultures, made sure to choose stamps bearing good news in “castellano”, and kept is simple and below the radar with a small, but honest, “Happy Father’s Day” message.
To both of my dads, I love you, I am grateful for you, and wish you a Happy Father’s Day.